A Bucket of Instagram posts that have helped me

For a long time, I have had an Instagram account dedicated exclusively to HAES, Intiutive Eating, Body Positivity, and Fat Activism. Every time I see a post that affects me in some way, or expresses a thought I never want to lose track of, or says something profound that I think my wife needs to hear, I bookmark it. Today, I decided to share a smattering of those posts. Please subscribe to anyone and everyone you see below. Their presence will make your life so much better.

Research shows us that we normalize to the bodies that we see around us. Beauty standards are built by repetition and insistence that thin is the only “right” way to be. So one of the most powerful things for me has been to just to fill my world with people of a much broader spectrum of body shapes and sizes. Collectively, these people have the audacity to show off a variety of body types doing all the normal shit that every other Instagrammer is doing every day. So yeah, there’s a lot of skin showing. Just being themselves is a powerful rebellion, and that’s what’s so powerful about it. I hope you participate in it.

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⁣"I went to download Netflix on my phone the other day and ALL the sponsored ads were for weight loss apps. Not only that, but so many people and brands are posting memes about how funny/bad it is to be fat, how awful it is to put on weight, and poking fun at people eating.⠀ ⠀ Fat bodies are not the butt of your awful jokes! There is LITERALLY A WHOLE PANDEMIC going on and we're defaulting to fatphobia. Not surprising, sadly. Big yikes. Plus, imagine how much budget has gone behind these sponsored ads for weight loss apps and the like - these companies are evil. They are feeding into our insecurities and internalised fatphobia and capitalising on it.⠀ ⠀ Weight gain is not a bad thing. It is ok to be fat. It is ok to eat. Fat people are not 'before' photos or failures. We've all internalised so much fatphobia that we believe weight gain is worse than potentially getting a horrible illness. These are unprecedented times - our weight is going to fluctuate if our activities and day to day life are going to be flipped on their head. And that's ok. ⠀ ⠀ 🌟 Follow fat people, listen to their voices. ⠀ 🌟Think more consciously about why you value a thin body more than a fat body. ⠀ 🌟Unpack the fatphobia you've learnt - now's a better time than any. ⠀ 🌟Unfollow any account that makes you feel like you need to diet or restrict your eating.⠀ ⠀ Practising self compassion is so key in times like this. So is unpacking the nastiness we've internalised." | image and words by @kittyunderhillx, photography by @libbyearland | #iweigh #tuesdayinspo #bodyneutrality #bodypositivity #mentalhealth

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📸: @alex_cameron ✨ How to make social distancing easier with the person you're dating! ⬇️ I have no idea. I mean, I know all the things we're supposed to be doing: the Skype dates, the shared playlists, sending love letters & watching movies at the same time. But honestly? Some days those things don't make it feel any easier, and it's okay to admit that. Some days it just feels really fucking hard. Some days we argue for no reason other than pushing each other away seems better than wanting each other. Some days we have conversations that light us up from the inside and we feel closer than ever. Some days we fall asleep on the phone so we can hear each other sleeping but then it's sad when we each wake up alone. Some days we can't stop thinking about how much we miss the other person's skin and how our own hands don't quite cut it. There is no blueprint for this, for any kind of relationship during this time. It's okay some days to admit that it's hard. That you miss them. That you feel lonely. Or scared. Or horny. Or angry. Or bored. Or tired. All of it's fine. One day at a time is all any of us can do. 💜💙💚🌈🌞 P.s. I miss you a whole lot @kennyethanjones 🌻 • [Image description: Megan and Kenny are sat in front of a grey backdrop, they're both semi-dressed and their legs are intertwined. They're smiling at each other with closed eyes and Megan's hand is playfully pushing Kenny's face away because he kept kissing her during the photoshoot]

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Instagram booty 🌿 I think we’ve all seen booty pics on Instagram and at some point compared them to ours. I know I have and I know I do this way too much, and suddenly my butt seems inadequate in size and I’ve convinced myself that this makes me unworthy. We have to keep in mind that posing completely changes how you look. Majority of people you see in photos you compare yourself to are posed. That isn’t how they look constantly. Your body doesn’t dictate your worth. So don’t let your brain allow you to think that just because you don’t look a certain way, all of a sudden you’re not worthy or attractive. We think thousands of thoughts per day so why do we let ourselves fixate on the negative ones? At the end of the day we let small things like this get to us when we shouldn’t. It’s a butt. Your booty is perfect the way it is. Your butt doesn’t have to look the way society idolizes them to look currently. You don’t have to change your body or pose in a certain way to gain approval from yourself. Every body is a good body. 🌿 On a side note: I have a new found respect for Instagrammers who can hold these poses and keep their face looking cute, cause wow. The titanium in my spine struggled and I was in pain bending my back in these positions. So, you go queens!! ------------------------------------------ . . . . #bööty #beautystandards #losehatenotweight #dietculture #selflove #inspo

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It's moving from spring to summer and it's getting HOT. We want to be wearing less clothing, not sweating in hoodies and black leggings, but some of us feel so self-conscious about our bodies that we do just that. So I'm here to tell you that your body is absolutely friggin fine. If you're fat, you're ABSOLUTELY STILL FRIGGIN FIIIIIINE AS FCK. You're perfectly entitled to strip off in this weather, and to feel confident doing so. Our squishy parts are normal and although they have been demonised by diet culture and society, THEY'RE WRONG TO DO SO. You deserve to have confidence in yourself and your body and have that confidence both alone and in public. You deserve basic respect and if people don't show you that respect, then they are not worth your time and certainly aren't worth any impact on how you feel. If you have a squishy tummy, know that it's okay to be soft. It's okay to have dimples and rolls. It's okay if your stomach is nowhere near being a "washboard". If your arms are chubby, if your thighs rub together, if you have back fat or a double chin or chunky calves, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. Your life's purpose is not to be small and hard. You are allowed to be soft and squishy and it's NORMAL for your body to be like that. And you are right to show it off in crop tops and bikinis and tight strap tops and dresses and short shorts this summer. Your body is friggin amazing. Don't be shamed into being uncomfortable this summer, or ever. You deserve to be comfortable. You deserve to feel free to wear what you want. You deserve to enjoy this summer and every summer and every day and so do your squishy parts. #bodypositivity #bodyacceptance #bodypositive #bopo #mentalhealth #health #healing #summer #fatpositivity #bodypolitics #edrecovery #recovery #fatphobia #embracethesquish #bodyappreciation #bodyconfidence #mentalwellness #mentalwellbeing #summerbody

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A Bucket of Instagram posts that have helped me
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